Apparently the third time wasn’t a charm for Jennifer Lopez — rumors have been buzzing that her marriage to Marc Anthony is over after she showed up to the premiere of “The Curious Case of Benjamin Button” last week sans husband or wedding band. So what went wrong? Us Weekly says

“He’s very, very controlling of her. The skirts aren’t as short. You don’t see so much of that booty anymore.” Anthony also picks out Lopez’s clothes and keeps tabs on her phone calls.

Another problem: Lopez — who once commanded $15 million per film — “blames Marc for her career [downturn]. Jennifer looked around and said, ‘This is my life now? I’m a Long Island housewife?’ She hates that everything she worked for went down the tubes.”

Anthony has also been badmouthing his wife. One night after their tense family Thanksgiving in which the couple “didn’t sit together,” Anthony hit NYC hotspots Bungalow 8 and Marquee, where he was spotted with his hand on a woman’s thigh and overheard complaining about his wife to a group of women.

His club spree didn’t stop there: The next night, he was photographed by TMZ.com partying sans wedding band with pal Eva Longoria Parker and Russell Crowe in Las Vegas.

Well, maybe that’s for the best. Now she can get back to her one true love, horribly cliched romantic comedies, and he can get back to his one true love, scurrying through dumpsters and gnawing on the brains of humans. Or whatever it is that zombie sewer rats do in their free time.

More of her at the Benjamin Button premiere without her undead rodent or wedding ring: