Gerard Butler is every kind of dirty I can think of — like “make him wear two condoms and douche with hydrogen peroxide after it’s over” kinda dirty — but his sheer animal magnetism is seemingly irresistible to women, particularly married ones. Radar Online says:

The hunky actor became involved with [a married] wanna-be actress/model last year and carried on an affair with her for several months. Butler was friends with the woman and her husband before becoming sexually involved with her.

“It was a very intense relationship. She had very strong feelings for Gerard, despite the fact that she was a newlywed at the time,” a source close to the situation [said]. “They would exchange heated text messages, emails and phone calls. She would drop anything to be with Gerard. The two would hook-up at his hotel when he was in Los Angeles.”

The woman’s husband eventually found out about the affair and threatened to divorce her but she begged for another chance.

“She told her husband she would end things with Gerard and he agreed to give her another chance,” the insider says. “However, the affair continued and she decided to file for divorce. She thought Gerard wanted to be in a relationship with her but then she found out he was involved with other girls, and hadn’t been exactly honest with her about what was going on in his life.”

Why is it that married women having affairs can still be genuinely surprised to discover that the men they’re cheating with are also cheating on them? Hey, dummies: if he cheats with you, he’ll cheat ON you. Fact. There is no honor among thieves. But hey, at least she has those six different strains of penicillin-resistant STDs to remember him by. It would be a shame if she didn’t have a little momento of their special time together.

Oh, and speaking of models, that reminds me… more of Bar Refaeli in her Passionata and Aqua Bendita bikinis: